Definition Of "Friend"

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FRIEND

a word that sounds very normal, very familiar to everyone.
a word that define someone around you.
a word that existed for a very long time.

However,

how do you define friend?
everybody has different definition.

For yu,

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He will not recognize everyone as friend. There are basically 3 categories of friends in his life.

Normal friends - friends that seldom hang out with him a lot. Normally he doesn't give a shit to this people. This is so call normal friends. Nothing much to elaborate.

Good friends - this group of people hang out with him a lot. Will see him at least every alternate weeks. There are bunch of people in this group but he wouldn't talk much of his personal stuff to them. Is not because they are not good, just not close enough to make him do that. He will treat this group of people fairly good. Share part of his stuff with them but not everything.

Close friends - this is probably the people he cares the most. He will like to see these people at least once a week. Will like to hang out with them more than everybody else. This group of people got the priority to fuck him up at least one time in his life. He will forgive these people no matter what the situation is. Even if they doubt him for some reasons, he will end up pretend to know nothing about it. This is because, he treat these people truly, with heart. He assume that they know about it and they will also care about him. This is what we call true friend isn't it? He will share all his stuff with these people. He doesn't need them to give back anything, because, when you really treat someone as close friend, you will not want them to count with you. You will prefer them to appreciate you. Sometimes, acknowledgment is far far more important than anything else. Don't even need to mention, YU is very SENSITIVE, he can sense it. When they acknowledge him as good friends, he would feel it. No doubts.

And lastly,

This is not in friends group.

Brothers - This group of people is one stage higher than close friends. For him, brothers do not mean that they must be guy. As long as they are close enough with him, until certain point, they will be upgraded as Brothers. This is not easy. Not everyone in his life can be his brothers. This needs a lot of fate and FAITH. You have to meet him at the correct time. Meet him at the correct situation. Everyone in ISU knows who are his brothers. That 4 guys treat him with HEART. Never doubt on him, not even once. Stand by him all the time. They walk together, run together, retreat together, laugh together, cry together, face everything together. The bond of these people and him is very very strong. This is because they went through a lot of things together. You think they are stupid? They are all smart asses. He will definitely say that these people are much smarter than a lot of people. They think further than a lot of people. They judge things objectively. If you think that they believe in each others is because they are close, then you are totally wrong. They believe in each others because they know each others more than anyone else. Sharing or not sharing is already not an issue here. They give everything to each others. They will help each others and at the same time, they will be very objective if anyone of them do something wrong. This is what we call real brotherhood. The people who reached this point, they would never be downgraded. This is why it is not easy to reach this point. It needs a lot of faiths, a lot of believes, and of cause, it needs a lot of understandings.


There is another category,

Not Friend -
1) people who betray him before
2) people that he doesn't like
3) people that hurt him too deep before
4) people that make use of him to achieve their goal
5) people who don't even know who he is


Things that he wouldn't do to his friends -

1) Never betray them
2) Never hurt them
3) Never doubt on them
4) Never make use of them
5) Never ever turn them down when they need help


However, this is not all the situations; there are a lot of complicated stuffs around. The things mention above might not be all true for all the situations. For example, He will not spare his friends that hurt him just because they need to achieve some thing. He will never forgive them even if they are his close friends. Therefore, other than brothers (which already not in friends categories) will still be eliminated from his friends list. Even tho this situation didn't happen a lot of times. But it did happen.

He will treasure all his friends. He will appreciate every friendship.

BUT

He will never hesitate to delete those who tend to make trouble in his life. The people that wanted to hurt you, no matter with what, they are not even worth to be called as friends.

This is a very brief definition from YU on "friends".


" Friendship last forever because "Trust", we make it happen "



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